Posts

Loud Mouth Talking Fancy

Image
QUESTION? Have you ever been in a verbal disagreement with another, a simple discussion, a conversation, heck an exchange of any form of dialogue when that other says something directly to you using a kind method in a normal tone but you just knew it was an intentional dig meant to disparage you? For example "It's fabulous how you always know everything to say although there's nothing within your brain". SHADE!!! I have been fortunate to be trained by the best so I can distinguish materialization of the passive aggressive speaker’s words before their voice utters a sound through their condescending lips and BAM, I'm on them like brown on rice. No Bueno.  This type of communication either takes years of practice to build into a spontaneous useful arsenal or this person has a unique talent with that ability probably stemming from their own psychological impairment.  If you’re attentive to the environment they lurk, without a doubt this loud Mou

Control Myself

Image
Does your life have a workable structure right now? When I say structure I mean having set objectives and goals. Absent of significant mounting wayward decision making. Are you in the position of knowing your boundaries and how to manage yourself around and within them? If you’re bargaining with a lingering weight of confusion in your daily progress, this may be a sign to turn on your conventional morals, values, while giving thought to how, why and what.. Going too far away from you're standards in order to satisfy flighty interest may be adding to the tension. Try following common tactics but don't behave buttoned up quite so tight. You should be able to find a way to loosen up enjoy your growth while still following a set of guidelines you choose to live by. Take a step back and streamline your activities, planned events, and how far away from common sense practices of life you stray. Making a consistent effort in a resolute and meaningful way should lead to a level o

Prayer and Visualization

                Proper visualization and prayer will undoubtedly result in the elimination of those stressful surroundings, and cause us to make choices in our lives to eliminate them in the physical plane.  It is our choice.  Especially in our modern world it is so easy for us to “reinvent” ourselves (a new life and job may only be a two-hour airplane flight, or 15 minute bus ride, away) it is undeniable that the lives we find ourselves in are chosen by us, And how joyous that is.  In a less dramatic way, we can also change, accept or reject elements of our existing relationships, jobs, and lives by making different choices.  It is the power to control our thoughts, our gift of choice, which is at the heart of this empowerment.                 It is funny how many of us say our prayers at night, or even go to a house of worship and pray, yet really lack the belief that our prayers are being heard or answered.  It is a kind of force of habit, an illusion of faith, goin

12 Things Your Significant Other Will Do If They Actually Care About You

BY JOSH MACDONALD Some people don’t like commitment. Some are poor at communicating while others are afraid to share how they feel. It’s easy to get discouraged when you’re unsure of how your partner really feels about you. Here are 12 questions to ask yourself to tell if your significant other actually cares about you and being with you. 1. Do they touch you? Do they hug you, hang on to you, rest their hand on you, or make skin to skin contact frequently? It’s been said that touch can calm your nerves among other things, showing genuine interest in the other person’s well-being. 2. Do they talk about the future? By talking about the future, your partner shows full interest in being with you for a long time. Women, in particular, are known to jump to conclusions and talk about their wedding and kids just shortly after getting into the relationship. This is partly to make sure that her high expectations don’t scare her partner off, but if she continues to talk about it, there

Miracle of Employment

DCAS EXAM SCHEDULE – SEPTEMBER 2016 The Department of Citywide Administrative Services (DCAS) is accepting applications for the following civil service exams. So don't delay, apply today!  TITLE OF EXAM EXAM NO. APPLICATION PERIOD APPLICATION FEE HOW TO APPLY OPEN COMPETITIVE – Exams Open to the Public COMPUTER ASSOCIATE (SOFTWARE) 7002 09/07/16 –  09/27/16 $68.00 Online (Open to the Public) COMPUTER ASSOCIATE (TECHNICAL SUPPORT) 7003 09/07/16 –  09/27/16 $68.00 Online (Open to the Public) COMPUTER PROGRAMMER ANALYST 7004 09/07/16 –  09/27/16 $68.00 Online (Open to the Public) COMPUTER SPECIALIST (SOFTWARE) 7005 09/07/16 –  09/27/16 $88.00 Online (Open to the Public) DEPUTY CITY SHERIFF 7006 09/07/16 –  09/27/16 $47.00 Online (Open to the Public) EMERGENCY MEDICAL SPECIALIST – EMT (FIRE) 7031 09/07/16 –  09/27/16 $47.00 Online (Open to the Public) EMERGENCY MEDICAL SPECIALIST – PARAMEDIC (FIRE)

IS SEX BETTER ON DRUGS?

Image
By  PAUL HACKETT THERE'S A BINARY CHOICE TO MAKE in response to the realization that you're getting older. You can either begin or intensify the contemplation of your own mortality; or you can invoke the only line of Dylan Thomas you can half-remember and start doing things that assert that you won't be shrugging on the cardigan of acquiescence anytime soon. For good or ill, as I barrel toward the big   4-0, I find myself in that latter category. That's why "chemsex" caught my attention. In this anemic milieu of 2016 -- marked by resurrected mom jeans, apprehended AR bunyips, and meticulously doctored photos of eggs Benedict -- chemsex sticks out like a sore penis: a sore penis being the absolute best-case scenario arising from what Wikipedia defines as: "a subculture of recreational drug users who engage in high risk sexual activities under the influence of drugs within groups." The page goes on to tell us that chemsex is: usually but not

Ignorance is Bliss but Knowledge is Half the Battle

Image
Just when you think you got a complete grasp of a situation, issue, circumstance etc., and you begin to move ahead with dedication basing your decisions on your analysis. WHAM!!! New data that was completely obscure but absolutely relevant and essential in guiding your path in a purer, cleaner, authentic, humane, unregretful direction comes barging in like a tidal wave.  Of course, for a brief moment, everything in your mind and surroundings seem to get swished around, toppled over and ruffled.  You have to ask yourself, "what the fuck"??? However, yield to it. Receive it. That is possibly how you were meant to learn this new detail.  Sometimes things have to get turned upside down for them to make any sense in the end. Besides the experience will add some excitement into your life, keeping your nerves alert and functioning, the greater and more imperative factor is that you were not too blind or ignorant to recognize what was necessary to. They say ignorance is b

MMM Growing up Post It

Image
IKEA, especially if you live in Queens NYC, Brooklyn NYC, Or Long Island NYS, shoule be 1 entire circle to itself....lol. Currently my place is more a combination of Looks Good, Cheap (still looks good), and well made.  I guess im growing up.